See blog entry July 23, 2008 10:13 am for more information about donating money.
January 6, 2009
CALLING ALL FRIENDS AND FAMILY!!
Phil is doing well at the Care Meridian facility in Artesia, where he has been living since the beginning of November. His speech and physical therapists are working with him a couple of times a week in an effort to help develop his ability to communicate. He remains in a state of semi-consciousness with periods of alertness.
What Phil needs more than anything, at this point, are visitors! While the facility provides a comfortable environment for Phil, he has had far fewer visitors since his relocation. As a result, he is receiving less of the regular sensory stimulation required to continue progressing and rehabilitating. Phil needs visitors to keep him engaged and to remind him how greatly he is missed and how much hope we still have for his recovery. Encouraged stimulating activities include reading, telling stories, listening to music, watching TV/movies, playing a musical instrument, talking, etc.
Thanks to everyone for staying connected and positive. Please make an effort to visit with Phil as soon as possible – a gift of your time is priceless.
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November 6, 2008
Care Meridian
17724 Gridley Road
Artesia, CA 90701
We're happy to report that Phil is settled at the new facility and is progressing nicely. Care Meridian provides a much more homelike environment and Phil is in a large, comfortable room with only one other patient. Phil has started to eat solid food and has begun very preliminary physical and speech therapy.
We've been told by his care providers that we can resume visits with Phil immediately! The hours have changed a bit to accommodate the visiting hours at Care Meridian (beginning at 11am) -- including more evening visits for those of you who were having trouble getting out to see Phil during the day.
Thanks to everyone for staying engaged and positive. Hope you get a chance to visit with Phil soon!
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October 22, 2008
The Hanleys have good news to report -- on Friday, 10/24, Phil will be moved from Kindred Hospital to a facility in Artesia specializing in therapy for patients having suffered traumatic brain injury. Given Phil's increased movement, responsiveness, and reactions, the move is appropriate and will address his changing needs.
For now, we will suspend hospital visits until we know the schedule/policies at the new facility. Look for another update in the next week or two. Thanks to everyone for your visits and energy and continued positive thinking!
For now, we will suspend hospital visits until we know the schedule/policies at the new facility. Look for another update in the next week or two. Thanks to everyone for your visits and energy and continued positive thinking!
September 29, 2008
GREAT NEWS!!
The Hanley family is thrilled to share some amazing news: today, Phil uttered his first words/sounds since the accident. Although it is too soon to tell exactly what it means in terms of his recovery, it is an incredible and encouraging sign! Please let's make sure we fill up his visitation schedule -- he needs stimulation now more than ever.
Thank you to everyone for your good thoughts and energy -- please keep them coming and we will provide another update as soon as we know more!
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The Hanley family is thrilled to share some amazing news: today, Phil uttered his first words/sounds since the accident. Although it is too soon to tell exactly what it means in terms of his recovery, it is an incredible and encouraging sign! Please let's make sure we fill up his visitation schedule -- he needs stimulation now more than ever.
Thank you to everyone for your good thoughts and energy -- please keep them coming and we will provide another update as soon as we know more!
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September 23, 2008
At the nine week mark, Phil is continues to make steady progress. He is still unconcioius yet is increasing his movement in both hands. He grips and squeezes his right hand with greater strength each day. He is also moving his head and left hand. Many of these movements appear to be on command. This is a great sign!
Keep up the wonderful support and thoughts. We knew this would be a long haul but Phil fighting hard!
September 7, 2008
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Keep up the wonderful support and thoughts. We knew this would be a long haul but Phil fighting hard!
September 7, 2008
We have very postive news to report. As of Friday, September 5, Phil is breathing through a trach without the assistance of a ventilator. He also no longer requires dialysis. His body remains free of any secondary concerns such as infection. Very encouraging signs!
A sincere thanks to the community for continuing support of the Hanley family, particularly to those who have begun to pay visits to Phil at the hospital to read, listen to music and other forms of very welcome sensory stimulation. Every ounce of support is invaluable. We will continue to provide updates to the community as new information becomes available.
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August 25, 2008
Hello Phil Supporters! MEETING AUGUST 27th from 6:00-7:00 p.m.
As many of you know, Phil is at a sub acute care facility in West Covina. He remains on a ventilator and receives dialysis treatment daily. Since he is still in a coma, it is time for a concerted effort to provide the appropriate sensory stimulation to speed up his recovery.
The support from the community has been tremendous. Many of you have expressed interest in helping in a more direct way. We are looking for people who feel they have the time and the level of comfort necessary to visit Phil periodically, for up to 30 minutes per visit, to provide sensory stimulation such as: reading, telling stories, recounting memories, watching television, listening to music and other activities.
On Wednesday, August 27th, from 6:00 - 7:00 pm, we will be training interested and available individuals on the protocols and particulars of providing this type of support. The training will be held at the Aveson Charter School campus, located at 1919 E. Pinecrest Drive in Altadena.
If you are interested in attending the meeting, please RSVP to meredithking@aveson.org
As many of you know, Phil is at a sub acute care facility in West Covina. He remains on a ventilator and receives dialysis treatment daily. Since he is still in a coma, it is time for a concerted effort to provide the appropriate sensory stimulation to speed up his recovery.
The support from the community has been tremendous. Many of you have expressed interest in helping in a more direct way. We are looking for people who feel they have the time and the level of comfort necessary to visit Phil periodically, for up to 30 minutes per visit, to provide sensory stimulation such as: reading, telling stories, recounting memories, watching television, listening to music and other activities.
On Wednesday, August 27th, from 6:00 - 7:00 pm, we will be training interested and available individuals on the protocols and particulars of providing this type of support. The training will be held at the Aveson Charter School campus, located at 1919 E. Pinecrest Drive in Altadena.
If you are interested in attending the meeting, please RSVP to meredithking@aveson.org
Thank you for your continued support.
August 24, 2008
THANK YOU TO ALL FAMILIES THAT SUPPORTED BEAUTIFYING THE CAMPUS ON SATURDAY AUGUST 23rd!!
Many of you may still be wondering what you can do to help the Hanley family.
Here are a couple of ways you can help!
Next, Saturday August 30th from 9:00 am - 1:00 pm, we are having the second of two consecutive Saturday work days. In Phil's absence, are beautiful campus leaves something to be desired before the school year starts. We are asking that you come to Aveson tomorrow with your work gloves, painters cap, and your gardening tools, and help out wherever you can.
Also, we have ordered and received 350 blue silicone bracelets that say "Phil, We Believe in You". (Big thank you to the Cohn family :0)) We have adult and child sizes and we are ready to sell the bracelets to you. Bracelets are $5 each or 5 for $20. If we sell them all, we will raise $1100 for the Hanley family. This is a wonderful way to show our support. Wearing our bracelets will be a symbol of our strong community and remind us to keep this family close to our hearts through Phil's recovery.
Bracelets are on sale NOW in the main office, and will be available on both Saturday workdays. We encourage every family to stop by as soon as possible!
Thank you for your support!
Here are a couple of ways you can help!
Next, Saturday August 30th from 9:00 am - 1:00 pm, we are having the second of two consecutive Saturday work days. In Phil's absence, are beautiful campus leaves something to be desired before the school year starts. We are asking that you come to Aveson tomorrow with your work gloves, painters cap, and your gardening tools, and help out wherever you can.
Also, we have ordered and received 350 blue silicone bracelets that say "Phil, We Believe in You". (Big thank you to the Cohn family :0)) We have adult and child sizes and we are ready to sell the bracelets to you. Bracelets are $5 each or 5 for $20. If we sell them all, we will raise $1100 for the Hanley family. This is a wonderful way to show our support. Wearing our bracelets will be a symbol of our strong community and remind us to keep this family close to our hearts through Phil's recovery.
Bracelets are on sale NOW in the main office, and will be available on both Saturday workdays. We encourage every family to stop by as soon as possible!
Thank you for your support!
August 18, 2008
"Since the time of our last blog update, Phil's team of doctors at Huntington Memorial determined that Phil was physically stable. On Friday, August 15, Phil was transferred to a sub-acute care facility in West Covina. he remains in a deep coma and is receiving daily dialysis to support kidney function on a ventilator for breathing.
Please continue your positive thoughts that Phil comes out of the coma and regains consciousness. The Hanley family thanks you for your continuing care, generosity and support.
Going forward, the blog will only be updated if there is a significant change in Phil's condition. Thank you for your understanding." We all miss Phil VERY MUCH!
Thank you all so much for your donations it is helping the family with housecleaning, gas, and groceries.
August 7, 2008
August 2nd, 2008
July 30, 2008
Phil's intracranial pressure (ICP) has remained within normal ranges over the past several days. This is great news in light of the severity of his original brain trauma. The doctors were very happy with his latest CT scan but will not know actual responsiveness and condition until his body is completely clear of all sedatives. This process will take more time.
As many of you may know, the secondary complications from a serious injury can be challenging. The lungs, kidneys and circulatory system are all effected by the treatment process. The doctors are addressing each condition as it presents itself.
Keep up the energy and support!
August 2nd, 2008
As of this morning, all medications keeping Phil in a drug induced coma have been stopped. His doctors are consistently surprised by his progress and feel his intercranial pressure is within the appropriate range to bring him out of the coma. Once the sedatives are completely clear from his system they can assess his actual responsiveness and condition. This process may take several days. As always we will keep this blog updated with his progress.
Thanks to everyone who continues to provide support in such a respectful way. This will be a long process so endurance of energy and support will be needed.
July 30, 2008
No Change.
July 26, 2008 10:56
I know a lot of us are wondering what we can do to help Phil and his family. Donating blood to Huntington Hospital in Phil's name is a way of helping indirectly. Hospital's are always in need of blood, and now is the time for us to donate.
July 28th, 2008
I know a lot of us are wondering what we can do to help Phil and his family. Donating blood to Huntington Hospital in Phil's name is a way of helping indirectly. Hospital's are always in need of blood, and now is the time for us to donate.
If you'd like to donate blood to Huntington Hospital for Phil Hanley, please call 626-397-5422.
Service Hours and Location
Service Hours and Location
The Blood Donor center at Huntington Hospital is open Monday 11:30 a.m. to 6:30 p.m. and Tuesday through Thursday from 9:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m., and Friday from 7:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. The Blood Donor center is closed on all major holidays. Please contact the Donor center to schedule your appointment.
The location of the center has recently changed. It is still on the main campus of Huntington Hospital, but has moved to the ground floor of the Wingate building. For more information, or to schedule an appointment, please call the Center at 1-626-397-5422.
July 28th, 2008
As many of you may know, the doctors still have Phil in a drug induced coma. They are watching the cranial pressure and waiting to see drop in numbers before they make any changes to his induced coma. Thank you for keeping Phil and his family in your thoughts and continuing to send your positive energies.
July 26, 2008
No Change
July 25, 2008
No Change
July 24, 2008
No Change
Post: July 23, 12:37 pm
Friends of Phil:
Friends and Family join us for a Candle Light Vigil For Phil, Cid, Leah, and Jordan. Information is below, if you are interested in attending.
Friends of Phil-
Phil is still in critical condition, however his "vitals" are stable. We will be updating the blog daily by noon, to let you know if there have been any changes to his condition. If there is no change, we will state "No Change". You can assume this means that Phil is still in critical condition, however his "vitals" are stable. If there has been a change in either direction we will notify the community as soon as it becomes appropriate to do so.
Post: July 23, 2008 10:13 am
Post: July 20, 2008 6:11 pm
Dear Aveson Family,
No Change
July 25, 2008
No Change
July 24, 2008
No Change
Post: July 23, 12:37 pm
Friends of Phil:
Friends and Family join us for a Candle Light Vigil For Phil, Cid, Leah, and Jordan. Information is below, if you are interested in attending.
1919 E. Pinecrest Dr.
Altadena, CA 91001
This Friday July 25th.
Starting at 6:30pm – 8:30pm
On the Black Top
(Park on Skyview-parking along the driveway or on the field)
Please bring;
1) chalk, to draw a message for Phil & family
2) a card, note, letter, a stuff animal, to be placed in a basket for Phil & family
3) a blanket & bottle water, we will be sitting and sharing our Love and Thoughts
4) If you have a poem, of Love, Caring, Thoughtfulness, and you would like to share it, please have it ready to read.
We will also be lighting candles,( you may choose not to) and having a moment of silence and ask to be in your own personal meditation. As the Aveson Family has banded together in the past, and have come through many unforeseen situations. So, shall we band together now, with our thoughts and feelings going out to Phil and his Loved Ones.
Please contact Joseph @ 626-437-1737 for any questions.....
This event is for ALL who know and love Phil Hanley. We welcome friends of Phil!!
Post: July 23, 2008 10:18 amFriends of Phil-
Post: July 23, 2008 10:13 am
Friends of Phil-
The Hanley family has a long journey in front of them. As a community, we are searching for ways to support this family. They need us to project thoughts of Love, and Healing, and Strength into the universe. And we radiate. We are believers in Phil.
We have set up a PayPal account for donations that will go directly to the family. As Cid's co-worker and friend, Jennee Sonnenberg will be accepting donations on their behalf. Jenee and Liz will be coordinating with community members to provide the family with Vons gift cards, Dream Dinners, gas cards, coffee cards, money for food while at the hospital, etc. PayPal is one of the most widely used online payment services on the Internet. It is free to set up an account and is absolutely secure. PayPal accepts payments through bank accounts or any major credit card.
Simply click on the link above to donate:
In the meantime, keep radiating. And keep believing. And keep praying. And keep honoring a man who makes every one of us smile. We will continue to be humbled in his light.
Post: July 20, 2008 6:11 pm
Dear Aveson Family,
Thank you all so much for your support! We feel it, Cid feels it, and Phil definitely feels it. Aveson is truly an awesome, unique and inspiring community.
What can you do now??? We are only asking that you continue to send your positive energy. Meals and child care have been taken care for the week from amazing community.
Post: 7/20/08 11:45 a.m.
Friends of Phil:
Phil is fighting!!
After a long night of observation Phil is showing "abnormal" movement. This morning his eyes responded to light, he moved his right and left toes as his loved ones touched his feet, and he had a much stronger cough reflex than he did yesterday. The doctor felt it was appropriate to take another CT Scan. After the CT scan, the doctor recommended that treatment be continued. They have now completed another procedure to continue draining fluid from his head.
What this means is, now more than ever we need the entire Aveson Family to send energies of hope and healing to the Hanleys. We are pulling together as a family and we are fighting! Please continue to send your love and positive energies to Phil, Cid, Leah, Jordan, and Phil's family friends and loved ones.
Thank you for y
our continued support!
Post: July 19, 2008
Friends of Phil:
Our community has suffered a tragic accident. Phil Hanley has fallen from a ladder at Aveson and suffered brain trauma. He is currently undergoing brain surgery at Huntington hospital. He has also suffered some damage to his lungs.
Now more than ever, we need the entire community's, blessings, prayers, support and/or whatever it is that you do to build the circle of energy around someone who really needs it.
We will keep you updated on Phil's status, and let you know when visitation becomes appropriate.
our continued support!Post: July 19, 2008
Friends of Phil:
Our community has suffered a tragic accident. Phil Hanley has fallen from a ladder at Aveson and suffered brain trauma. He is currently undergoing brain surgery at Huntington hospital. He has also suffered some damage to his lungs.
Now more than ever, we need the entire community's, blessings, prayers, support and/or whatever it is that you do to build the circle of energy around someone who really needs it.
We will keep you updated on Phil's status, and let you know when visitation becomes appropriate.
176 comments:
Phil I'm thinking about I can't wait to hear about you trip to Oklahoma. Love,
Amy
Serembes send you love and heaps of best wishes. We're thinking of you and your family.
You are a part of our family and we love you very much -Steve & Carey
Phil,
Your smile, charm and good nature energizes our office and the entire the Aveson Campus. Your persona exudes a genuine love for children. Phil, you are the "Father" of Aveson...Our big Teddy Bear!!!
We can't wait to see you back on campus runnin' up and down those steps pretending that you're not tired! :-)
See you soon, papa Aveson.
Love,
Mysh and Family
Hi Phil,
We are thinking about you and your family during this stressful time and know that you'll be up and about in no time!
Erin & Rick Buoen...Riley, Spencer & Delaney
you are such a wonderful part of what makes Aveson so special.
prayers and good thoughts to you and your family.
the westfall-munoz-kee brood
jennifer, jerry, danielle ,luis, & enrique
All of my Love to Phil, Cid and the kids. All of my love and prayers.
We all love you Phil!!!
Allison Dankner
the highest love, hope, and blessings to you all. You are Warmth Sunshine and Good Cheer. We love you.
Bo, Robert, Ryder, Clara, and Robyn
Cid,
We are so very sorry to hear this shocking and sad news...If there is anything that we can do to support you or your family please call...anything...
We will miss Phil so much, Aveson will not be the same with him not around every corner helping out.He was a true gem of a person.
Our hearts are with you all during this challenging time in your life..we love and care about you...
Much Love,
Colleen & the 2 Mike's
Dearest Phi and Cid:
You and your kids and your mom, too, are tucked into our hearts, and we'll keep you there.
Thinking of you with so much love,
Sonja, Albert, Anton and Zosia
Phil, Cid, Leah and Jordy,
We love you all. You are in our thoughts and in our hearts. Our prayers are with you.
Love,
Laura, Juan, Roman, Karissa, & Nicolas
Phil, we are thinking about you and your family, and praying for your speedy recovery.
- Kirk, Nancy + Xander Melkonian
Phil,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You are on our minds and in our hearts, and we send you blessings for a speedy recovery.
With much love,
Lynn and Skyler (Berry/Thomas)
When the ultimate Renaissance man falls... we tumble too. And we are humbled. I have been thinking about the long hours you have been putting in at Aveson this summer. How you are there because you believe in building something different. How you and your wife work together, yet have so little opportunity to see one another. Your devotion and dedication inspires me. Today is not fair. And I am filled with sadness. Because when we are working to make small differences in the world, we shouldn't tumble. But know that when we do... we not only have family... but an entire world of people who love and honor you and your family. Just say the word. Whatever you need.
Mad, crazy, beautiful wishes, thoughts and love.
Jennee
Phil,
Without your efforts, there never would have been an Aveson. You built it, my friend, and they came.
I will laugh with you again. We will talk football again. We will keep building.
-Tom
Phil and family! Prayer literaly removed cancer from our family this summer. Now that energy throughout the state and the country will be with you. We look forward to seeing you good as new in Sept. Please reach out if you need anything at all.
The Gillingers
Our hearts ache....the candles on our altar table are glowing and we hold you and your family in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. Peace, Kathleen and the Van Dusen family
Phil, Cid, Leah and Jordan,
You are in our hearts and prayers. Please call us anytime for anything. We hope to see you this summer in our pool!
Love,
Mark, Anne and Matthew
Phil, i need to hear you talk about the packers or the lakers as we always did as i dropped off my kids every morning. It was always good to also hear about your old rock and roll stories when you used to help with rock bands.
I look forward to your big smile, and your big heart for Aveson and the kids. You will be in our prayers... Thanks for keeping an eye on all our kids..
Tracey Thompson and Family
Phil,every morning when i saw you your the one who made me smile. I look forward to seeing you this year and have you and your family in my prayers and wishes. I know you will get better. Hope you feel better.
Summer Thompson
Phil and family,
We are so sorry to hear of this. Stay strong and know that your "extended" family is with you and looking forward to your recovery.
All thoughts and prayers from the Steif-Zuker family.
John, Rooh, Joely and Charlie
The Rosenbluh Clan wishes you all BIG love and HUGE positive thoughts towards a speedy and triumphant recovery. With all our love, Jula, Riley, Quinn, Monique and Paul
Phil, Cid, and family,
You are strong threads that weave our community together. We all share your pain, and send our most positive energy for Phil's recovery and your family's healing. Know that the love and gratitude of the whole Aveson community is supporting you to help you overcome this hurdle.
With best wishes for a speedy recovery,
Carol, Steve, Kyle & Lindsay Labrecque
Phil, all our thoughts, positive energy and prayers are with you. You really are one of the important faces of Aveson!
With love,
Giulia Stepp's family: (Edwin, Gina, Haley, Giulia, Amanda)
Phil and family,
We're sending you healing thoughts and all our well wishes. We're thinking of you and hoping to see you up and around soon!
--Owen, Terri, and Wallis
We are sending you so much love for a speedy recovery. You are such a ray of sunshine whenever we see you on campus. A constant happy face that greets whom ever passes you by. You give so much to our school. This is so unfair. We will be thinking of you constantly and can't wait until you are ready for visitors.
Love, Jude & Annika
Dear Cid,
Our hearts sank when we heard the news. Please know that we are praying for Phil and for you and the kids. The entire Aveson community is holding your family close to our hearts, and we promise to hold on and lift you up as long as you need it.
Much love,
The Cohn Family
Phil, Heard the news from Mrs. Schmidt, one of your first responders... so, so sorry. We hope and pray for a speedy recovery. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Stephane, Mindy, Tatiana, Samuel, Theron and Maxwell -Theron Joyet's family.
I dreamt last night that the Aveson community was all gathered at Phil and Cid's house --- then Phil showed up, walking a little slower and looking a little tired but on the road to recovery.
Phil openly shares his friendliness, hard work and good stories with everyone in the community. I've learned that he is TOUGH underneath it all - he's the only guy I know who snow skis in shorts. He's been through big accidents before and not only lived to tell about them, but turned them into signature Phil Hanley stories. My belief and hope is that Phil will be back with us soon, "telling us all about it" in the way that only he can.
Much love to you Cid, Leah, Jordan, Phil and Grandma. We are holding you up.
Liz Culpepper
Phil, Cid and Family..
My wife and I were saddened by the news and pray for a speedy recovery.
Stay strong buddy.
-Weldon & Kameelah Wilkerson
Phil, Cid, Leah, and Jordan,
My thoughts and prayers are with you guys today. Know that you have an intense ring of family around you.
Sending our thoughts, prayers, and love to you all - here's to a full and healthy recovery.
Our hearts are with you,
The Bellings
May you feel the profound love and positive energy that surrounds you while you rest and allow the healing forces of our love and prayers do their work. All you have given us personally and collectively is coming back to you... feel it. Love and hugs, Sally
Phil,
You are such a positive force at Aveson. We look forward having you back whenever you are ready!!
We are thinking of you and your family.
Enzo, Petra, Mona & Bruno Cesario.
We are thinking of you so much and know that you will recover with the same energy you have poured into the Aveson dream. We are thinking of you and your family with love and heaps of confidence for your speedy recovery. Much love, the Murphy-Boyds
OH Phil, Cid, and Hanley kiddos! We Poulsens are sending thoughts of health, recovery, and love to your family. Phil being injured at Aveson working in body and spirit on all of our school is so telling of him and his giving nature. We look forward to the day very soon when he will be back on campus smiling and telling stories and giving Leah and Jordan horsey rides at home. Please know we are all here for you - just say the word. Much love, Tom, Danielle, Chris and Hannah
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Phil, you are what makes Aveson so special.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We look forward to seeing you gracing the Aveson campus again soon.
All the best wishes to you for a speedy recovery.
Ralph, Sally, Hannah & Gabe
Cid, Phil, Le-le, and Jordan~
I am thinking of you all each moment. Keep fighting, we are all fighting with you! Phil is such an amazing pillar of strength at Aveson, and it is our turn to be his pillar.
Anything you needs, I am here.
Much Love,
Thea and Zoey (she sends her kisses too)
We were shocked and saddened to hear about the accident. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
If there is ANYTHING that we can to do help, please let us know...we can bring meals, provide transportation, have Leah and Jordan here...or anything else. The offer stands open for as long as you need.
We love you all,
Kristina, Mark, Claire and Jill
Phil, Cid & Family
Out thoughts and prayers are with you. You are a huge part of this Aveson Family--can't wait to see you. Love, Caroline, Roger, Jake & Alex Fernandez
Thinking about you each moment of the day....kvd
Phil,
We were shocked and saddened to hear of your accident. Our thoughts are with you and your family and we know you are fighting hard to recover for them and for your Aveson family. We will keep you and yours close to our hearts and look forward to seeing your smiling face soon.
Love,
Steph, James & Ethan
We hope you get better soon so you can play ball with us again and help us with the school. Leah and Jordan, we hope your Dad can come home soon. We are thankful for the way you help our community at Aveson.
Our family has you in our thoughts and prayers.
Amara, Saadiq, Rahima and Trenell Young
Dear Phil, Cid and family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We love Phil for his energy, warmth and his ability to be a teacher as well as a plant manager. We are visualizing Phil's recovery, and sending love and care to each of you. Please let us know if there is anything, large or small, that we can do for you.
Cindy, Paul and Jonathan
We are sending you love for a speedy recovery. We hope to see that constant happy face that greets whom ever passes you by. You give so much to our school. We were shocked and saddened to hear about the accident. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
David & Karen & Kevin Maas
Dear Phil,
Our thoughts and hearts are with you,
much love,
Orla, Mollie, George and Kian
Phil and the family its me Krysta. I was shocked when my mom(melinda) told me what happened about your fall..i was worried about all of you and wanted to make sure if you were alright...i did have an difficutlt time going through with my grandfather's cancer this summer. But there is ONE thing that i do know is that everything is going me just fine..so that means YOU are going be just fine and think postive things about phil..we are praying for you and your family. we hope that we could see you soon as possible..
love The Gillinger Family
Dear Cid,
We are thinking positive thoughts for Phil and your family. We always look forward to seeing his smiling friendly face every morning at the 3-5 drop-off. Please let us know how we can help-childcare, meals, food shopping,etc. We are just a phonecall away. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Dan and Julie and Kirsten, Katherine, Emma, and Elsa
Dear Phil and Family,
We are all thinking about you and praying for you and sending lots of love and hope.
Love, Grady, Melinda, Trevor and Logan Goddard
Phil,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
~~The Abron Family
hey phil and family.
i'm sooo sorry to hear about your set back.
i can't wait to see you again.
you mean soo much to everyone and you are in everyones thoughts.
love bridgit
Dearest Phil,
Cale and I are pulling hard for you Phil - All the positivity and support you put out daily to keep the Aveson community functioning - a community your can-do spirit, good faith and action keeps thriving- let all that goodness you planted come back to you now as you heal- We love you and send our most powerful prayers to you, Cid, and your babies. May you all feel well-loved and supported.
Love,
Bridget & Cale
Dear Phil, Sid and family
We are sending you massive amounts of love knowing that you are fully supported in this challenging time. Emma and I continue to hold you in healing light and are here for you in every way.
Peace and love, Gwen and Emma
Stay stron! Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rick, Antonieta, Miranda and Alexandra
Lots of love
It's all healing from here. We are sending all our love and support in your direction. We can't wait to see all your smiles again.
Love,
Brian, Kelly, Ella and lil Syd Forden
We have you in our thoughts and prayers. You are such a large part of what we love about Aveson. Please let us know if there is any way in which we can be helpful. We will be following the blog daily and sending you wishes of healing. Kristen, Andre, Ezra, and Zeke
Phil, I am so glad to have spent time with you last weekend at Rocklahoma. I want you to wake up. I love you, Phil.
I can't stop thinking and praying for you. When you wake up I will be there.
You still have finish all the you tube stuff. I love you so much, and your friendship is so true.
"Hello."
Hi Phil, this is Hanah, I've been praying for you a lot.
Wake up! I know how much you mean to my dad, and he loves you sooo much.
Dear Hanleys,
We're sending our love and positive thoughts your way. Please let us know if there's anything we can do to help.
Doug, Cass, Ella & Quinn
Phil,
You have been in our constant thoughts and prayers since Saturday morning. We are simply willing you to wake up and share your beautiful big smile with Cid and the kids again, and with all of us. You are such a vital part of the Aveson community...we are all pulling for you!
Love, Abe, Claudia, Ben and Colette Porter
May be posting this twice...
Anyway, I'm sorry to hear about what's going on. As a registered nurse, maybe I could be of some help. I would be happy to come by the hospital to speak to staff or to help take care of Phil. Hospital nurses are often overburdened and it can help tremendously to have another caregiver there.
Please call. Helena Harvilicz (Simon's mom)
Dear Phil and Cid, Hang in there! Our thoughts are with you.
Love, Greta, Neil and Nathan
Phil, Cid & Family,
My heart goes out to you all. You are all in my prayers. I believe there is nothing to hard for GOD. He can do all things and I know he can you pull you out of this. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help.
Love
Trista & Kaitlynne
Phil, Cid, Leah and Jordan,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We hope that all the love and support that is poured out from the hearts of all of the Aveson community memhers finds its way to you and can bring you healing, comfort, peace and love. We're here for you - whatever you need.
Lisa, Eric, & Emma
Elaine, All of us at Lerner, Moore, Silva, Cunningham & Rubel are praying for your son. We know he will recover as he has your love and strength. We are here for you and your family if you need anything. God Bless You All.
Aveson Community:
It is inspiring to read your posts and to be a part of this family. You are truly remarkable.
Sebastian and Susie
Dear Phil, Cid and Family-
We are so sorry to hear about your accident, Phil. You are a strong spirit, and although we continue to pray for your recovery, we KNOW that God is with you and that you will pull through 100%. With loving prayers and hope-
The Yee Family
Ron, Jami, Irie and Ajah
Dear Phil, Cid, Leah & Jordan,
You are in our thoughts, prayers, & hearts. You are truly blessed to have so many close friends and family to provide such an abundance of love, hope, and support during this trying time. Clearly, Phil is receiving the best care possible - the staff at Huntington Memorial is phenomenal.
Phil,
When Erin called me to inform us of your injury and relate your condition, I was shocked beyond belief and numb with sadness. It is so hard for all of us to see the strong, able-bodied Phil we all know so well in this condition. All of us want to see you make a full recovery and return to being the fantastic husband, father, son, brother and friend you are.
These days are critical so you need to rest easy, but be strong, and fight hard. We are praying for strength and healing. You're in God's hands and in all of our hearts.
Get well soon, Hanley. We love you so much...
Bob, Lisa, Sheryl, Bill, Dave & Jeff Stutz
Phil, I'm sorry to hear about the accident, but you have to keep holding on. We all love you and Aveson is here waiting for you. Also, who would help me answer my constant questions? and find me poster board, and help me with my science project? hurry up and get well...love Siobhan Murphy Boyd
from pichardo family.... junior
everytime we see you we are full of joy... phil we are praying for you every moment that we think about you throughout the day... we know youre a fighter and that you will get through this... we wont stop praying until we see you up and about...
from Jose aka Junior, Patricia, Aydde, Dyann, Evelyn, Jsoe Jr. Junior, and Daniel
We are thinking of all of you and we have you in our prayers anything we can do to help please dont hesitate to ask...
Dear Cid,
Our thoughts are prayers are with you. We know this is a difficult time. We are thinking about you and the kids. Please don't hesitate to call. I am in Pasadena. My cell is 626-533.4313.
Phil, you are going to pull through...we know you are a fighter!
Leah and Jordan...we missed you at Summer Camp with Y-Tribes. Priscilla and Juliana are praying for you.
Jeff, Dinora, Priscilla, Juliana and Annabella. :)
Cid, our prayers are with your family. Everything will be back to normal soon. We will be waiting for you, Phil and the kids in Y-Tribes.
Love,
Evelyn, Alicia (in Jordin's Zuni group) and Anthony.
Just stopping by to say HI! Love you all~ Thea
hello hanley family.all my prayers and positive energy go out to you and your family.phil be strong and keep fighting you are a good man and great friend i have faith that you will kick this situation straight in the ass. you guys are in my heart all the time and i got your back. i cant believe something happen to a man that give so much of himself. cid, leah and jordan god bless you and you guys will pull through just fine. love eric kinley. i will sing a special tune just for my man dr phil.
Phil and Cid,
We're with you in prayer and in any other way you need us... just call! (626-836-8551) We know our big, cuddly bear will again be serving, but standing in faith for the journey. "Phil, you're the best!!!"
Much love and bear hugs,
Lori, Gaylord and Ellis
Phil, Cid and kids,
Our love and prayers are there with you and we can't wait to see Phil's smiling face on the Aveson campus come September. Prayer is so powerful and you guys are such an amazing family, so I'm sitting in the belief that together we will bring you through this rough moment through love and prayer. And tomorrow we will celebrate the victory of seeing Phil healthy, happy, whole and smiling very, very soon. May you be comforted in the peace of knowing all is well.
Love to you,
Sherrie, Barry, Colby and Elliott
i hope you have a speedy recovery and will feel much better. I'm thinking about you dude so keep fighting. :)
-Oliver
Phil & Cid,
Our thoughts are with you, as are our wishes for a speedy recovery.
Paul Kelly & Family
Dear ones-
Emma and I are continuing to hold the space of health and wholeness. I know that right where Phil is he is wrapped in love and light and the most divine healing energies. I am knowing that we will be sneaking our diet cokes in the dry food storage room sipping away and solving the worlds problems soon. We love you all and are holding the family in strength, peace, joy and love. We are here for anything you need.
Much peace and love,
Gwen & Emma Rose
(323) 308-0977
Eric K- You said it right..."I got your back" Hanley Family- we've got your back!
Love, Thea
Dear Phil,
We were so saddened to hear about your accident. We are praying for a complete recovery and look forward to seeing your smiling face as we drop off our children into your loving care at Aveson. We are praying nightly for God to send angels down to be with you each and every moment. A big bear hug to you, Phil and if your family needs anything, please, please let us know how we can help.
Love,
Tanner, Taylor, Beth and Dino White
Dearest Hanley Family:
Well, you're on my mind the minute I wake up and the moment I go to sleep and all the hours in between. I even dream of you all. I think if anyone has the spirit to overcome such difficulties, it's you, Phil, with your irrepressible optimism, good nature and sense of humor. You have such a light in you. And then, you have Cid--I never saw a couple whose love is more palpable.
And Cid--I will never understand why you have to go through this. You're a woman of strength, courage and joy and I know you're calling on those attributes now. The whole community is there to raise you up when you get weary. We think of you, we think of Leah and Jordan and your mom and we'd do anything in our power to help you.
I'm there with you in spirit and will be in person should you need me. My family and I are shining love to you always--
Sonja
Elaine, We continue to send prayers of strength for you and your family. If you need anything please let us know!
We love you,
The Office Gang
Dear Phil,
We are thinking about you and your family. Can't wait to see you soon. :)
Cid,
We know things will be better.
Kids....we miss you. :)
Dinora, Jeff, Juliana, Priscilla and Juliana (Y-Tribes)
"Phillycheese".....we are thinking of you and you family. Yesterday we missed you so much. We prayed as a family not a team, for you and your family. We are the "Enforcer Family" and we need you to come back and joke around with us, and see your beautiful children in our dugout. Your heart, and strength is missed and we pray for a full and speedy recovery. Can't wait to see you standing front and center pitching for us again, and cheering us on. We love and miss you very much. Take care buddy! We love you!
Dear Phil,
While I was running the other day I was thinking about how you always laughed while you tried to keep up with me walking....Can you imagine me walking faster?
We've all met so many of your wonderful friends and family. I have heard more great stories about your life and your mom shared that you like See's Molasses Chips. Molasses Chips and a Diet Coke now that sounds really good.
Love you bunches,
Amy
P.S. Jared said to send his best to you and yours.
Our thoughts are with the Hanely family. The love and support that is out there will truly help in the healing process. Keep up the positive thoughts!
Ryan, Stephanie, Emma and Hannah Blank
Dear Hanley family,
We are saddened for you having to go through all this. We are sending out all the positive energy we can to you and know that better days are on their way.
The Butterworth Family
Phil,
You are the core at Aveson! We are sending you our thoughts, prayers and love daily! This is a huge hurdle to overcome, however, if ever there was a person who can do it, it is you, Phil!
Keep up your strength, positive attitude and know that you are not doing this on your own, the Aveson community is right there for you!
Hanley family - please feel free to contact us if we can help in anyway - childcare, meals, $, even tasks like cleaning up, running errands, or doing laundry! Let us know how we can help and we will be there for you. We are in this together for Phil.
Love,
Fidel, Amy & Che Wong-Martinez
From Gene and Marilee
Phillip we love you and we know that Gena is up there praying for you. We know how she is and that her relationship with our Lord is very strong and the Blessed Mother is listening to her as well.
Love you...get well soon. Gene and Marilee
Our Dear Phil, Cid and Kids-
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We send you Love, Strength and Blessings from Above to help you through this difficult and confusing time. We are a community of family and what befalls one, befalls us all. We are ALL here for you.
With much love-
The Walkers
Connor, Jane, Tom, Charlie and Ryan
Phil and family we are praying for you daily. Gods blessings be with you all. Have faith and believe that God is always in control.
Much Love,
The Strother Family
Dear Phil,
The boys Jonathan, Ethan, & Leveail are waiting for you. They love you so much. You are such a positive role model and mentor to our 9th grade boys. Not only do you teach them to fix and build things but you teach them about life. They look up & respect you because of the respect, kindness, patience, and guidance you give to them.
Phil, we are pulling for you. Keep Fighting! You and your family our in our thoughts and prayers day and night.
Love,
The Devonshire & Williams family
Jennifer, Dave, Jonathan, & Evan
All of my thoughts and wishes go out to you and your family. I know you will recover successfully and return as happy as ever.
-Jessica
Keep SMILEing!!
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, daily...Have faith! Trayci
Phil, Cid, Leah, and Jordan:
Our thoughts of love and healing are headed straight at you all. Please do not hesitate to call if you need anything.
Peace and Love,
Kimberly, Mando, & Maximus Uribe
Phil-You are our sunbeam. We love you dearly and know that your gentle and jolly spirit will overcome this obstacle!
Love-Jennifer, Rubey and Noah
Phil, Denzil the SAW staff and I want to say how appreciative of you we are. You are and have been one of the friendliest and nicest individuals we've met at Aveson. Thanks for always making us feel welcomed here. I loved how you always had smile on your face, no matter how tired you were. :) I'll never for get when you came up to do something in the SMILE Room (library) and you stopped to talk to me and took a moment to play the guitar with one of the Aveson-SMILERS. That was sooo cool of you. See how you are...
Well, we at SMILE A While want to share some thoughts with you. The following are notes from some of the SAW-Aveson campers.
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Kaitlynne (4th): Phil, you are the best and I hope you feel good.
Micah (6th): Get well soon we are missing you man!
Dante (2nd): Phill, I hope you are good.
Fiona (3rd): I am sorry that you hert yourself.
Queti (7th): I hope you feel better Phil, my prayers are going out 2 u and your family.
Maria A-G.(7th): I hope you feel better soon. We are praying for you.
Adrianna A-G (7th): Hey Phil, I pray and hope u r feeling a lot better. I miss u very, very, very much and hope to see you smile again next year or during the summer. Bye and feel better.
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Again our hopes and prayers go out to you, Sid and the children. We hope that you all are feeling our hugs all the way in your room. And just so you know, if the kids could use a little fun or time away the doors of SMILE A While are open at no cost. We love you guys!!!
Sincerely, Sussannie (SAW)
"Fight On"
Fight on for ol' SC,
Our men fight on to victory.
Our Alma Mater dear
Looks up to you,
Fight on and win
For ol' SC
Fight on to victory
Fight on!
Cid,
I'm here....
love you,
Karen
Heavenly Father, we come to you with open hearts and ask that you surround Phil and his family with your great love. We pray that you will watch over them as they move through this difficult time, and that you will bless them with the strength that they need. Amen
We're thinking about you every day and sending all our positive energy your way. Keep fighting Phil! The entire Aveson community are all here for you, Cid and the kids.
Phil was a really cool guy - I remember him trusting me with his iPod, showing me a band he worked with. And that's not the reason I adored him as a friend, but he constantly smiling, always whistling, smiling on end...for everything he's done for Aveson so far, that just amazes me.
My thoughts and prayers will be with him.
cWe couldn't make it to the candle-lit vigil. John has to work, Tiffy's in summer camp and uncontactable and Lillie is too disruptive to take anywhere as it's her bedtime.
I explained to Lillie what happened to your noggin and Lillie and I lit two candles tonight. They're burning here in our living room for you as I type.
Wake up Phil, your family needs you and the kids at school need you too.
Lynette & Lillie (Tiffy and John.)
Phil and family,
Just heard today through the grapevine today about your accident. I can't think of Aveson without picturing you as part of it. Your the guy who can fix anything and make it look easy. I have to have faith that you are working on it and will been on your feet in no time. Take care. You have lots more to do.
Joan
I was honored and humbled to be a part of the candle light vigil tonight. I felt so much love, but mostly I feel such knowingness that Phil will fully recover and that this just a part of his journey on earth. To me he defines grace in action. We are here for the family what ever his process is and how ever long it takes. We hold you all in daily prayer.
Much love & Peace, Gwen & Emma Rose
Danny Faccini said...
Phil, You're a great person with a great heart. From a loyal Bruin, I can only say "Fight On." Please!
See you back on the mound. Love. Danny Faccini
POLLY GAINOR said...
Phil, Cid, Leah and Jordan
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I send much much love.
Polly Gainor
Dear Hanley Family--we have just come into town and learned of Phil's accident. We will be in fervent prayer (as a family) for Phil's recovery and for peace and provision for Cid and the kids. We are so sad about this tragedy, but hopeful in the goodness of God to care for you all.
Much love to you,
Ryan, Julie, Mackenzie and Luke Bolger
Hey!!! This this is tiffy. I just got back this second and I heard about Phil while I was away, but unfortunately I couldn't do anything. So I am now.
Hey Phil, everyone at school hopes to see you again this up coming year, and we all hope that you get well soon!!
-Tiffany Serembe
Dear Phil, Cid, Leah and Jordan,
I think of you every day and wish for peace and strength for each of you. Waiting is so hard. You have given so much, and I pray that much will be given to you.
Jonathan says, "Get better Phil. Here's a hug, Ms. Cid."
Cindy Davis
Hi Phil, Cid, Leah and Jordan:
Just wanting to let you know that I think of you many, many times each day and send you much love.
Sonja
Dear Phil,
There are no words to express how I'm feeling about this. I just find it so hard to believe that one moment can change everything so much. So I want to be sure that you know how much I've appreciated all you've done for me. You have brought me video screens, cleaned my room, brought me tables, set me up in other classrooms, pretended to hit me with your truck in the name of crime scene investigations with the bio students, and were just always there to help out with everything. I don't think what happened is fair but now we are just going to have to give fair a swift kick in the pants. It is now time to start fighting back. Start winning the small victories. Move your fingers, wiggle your toes, smile at your family, hold your wife's hand, get out of bed, and come back to us. Thought you might be used to a checklist of things to do so hopefully this will motivate you.
All my prayers.
Scott Houston
Thinking about you all, and sending you Peace, Love and Strength all day long.
The Walkers
While you rest and let your body heal, keep feeling the love and positive energy that is embracing you as all of us constantly hold you and your family in our hearts and minds. I visualize you strong and well and back with us. You are still my hero! Love, Sally
I am thinking and praying for you guys and I believe that God can heal. If there is anything at all that I can do, don't hesitate to ask. Love you guys!
Phil,
We are thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. You are in our prayers and thoughts. We wish you a safe and healty recovery.
-The Fanelli's
Hi Phil:
I was thinking today about the June Jubilee and how I'd said one day that I needed a ballpark estimate of how big the blacktop was so that we could figure out how to set it up--and how, the next morning when I saw you, you handed me a drawing of the blacktop, done to scale on graph paper. You had even drawn little tables, the backstop and the 2 bungalows. I was so impressed by that! I'm not a person who thinks logically and have lousy grasp on spatial relations, so it amazed me that you could do that so quickly and accurately, and it helped all of us enormously to put on that event.
I just want you to get better. I can't imagine working with anyone else on these things. No pressure, but feel us all loving and valuing you so much and float on back to us. We'll give you the biggest party in the world.
Sonja
Dear Phil, Cid, Leah and Jordan,
We were so overwhelmed by the news of your accident. We pray for your recovery and send good healing thoughts to you all.
Much Love,
Vivian, Roman, Nova and Maxine Trujillo
Just thinking about all of you today....Wake up Phil...We all need you!
Dear Cid,
We are praying daily for Phil and for you and the kids. Phil is weaved through our thoughts and we know that he is going to come back to you. Stay strong, and we promise to as well.
Hugs,
Cynthia
Cid, I am still here, visualizing your healthy strong light filled family. Let me know what I can do when and if you want.
Bo
Hi Phil & Cid,
Every day we hope, we pray, we think of you. We are all still surrounding you with our love and good energy. We will keep working; you keep resting and get healthy.
Love, Lisa, Eric & Emma
Hi Cid and Phil and kids,
It was so good to see you, Cid, and all the outpouring of love. I think of you all every day. The pool awaits.
xoxo Anne
Dear Phil and Cid,
We think of you daily. Stay tuned in to the love and light pouring toward you from all directions.
Wishing you both so much strength and faith...
Love,
The Hanks Family
Keep fighting Phil! We're praying for your recovery every day!
Dear Phil and Cid,
I'm praying for you as you take this next step! Every step forward is something to celebrate. You are never far from my heart.
Cindy
Fight Phil, Fight!!!! Fight Phil, keep fighting!
We're thinking about you Phil. Keep fighting brother!
Phil,
We have faith that your body has been doing it's important work healing these past few weeks and now you are ready to come back to your family and friends who miss you. We are waiting to hear the story about when Phil woke up in the hospital and said "What the heck am I doing here and why do you all look so serious?" Our family thinks about yours every day and sends our most heartfelt wishes for this time to end and your road to recovery to begin.
With much love,
Tom, Danielle, Chris, and Hannah
We think of you each and every day. And night, as I have been seeing you in my dreams...sending our thoughts and energy to all of you. Keep hearing the phrase so often spoken,"Ask Phil!" Peace, Kathleen, Keith, Kali and Jack
Cid-
We are thinking of you and your family every day and every night, sending you all Love during this time of healing. Tell Phil we are all rooting for him, praying..."Fight on, Phil!"
See you soon-
The Walkers
Dear Phil and Cid:
Just got the update about your amazing self, Phil. I'm sitting here looking at a magical crescent moon outside of my window, thinking that you're going to smack my cynical self with a bonafide miracle. If anyone can do it, you can. It's what I wish for with all of my heart.
And Cid--you are a miracle. Hang on--think of all of us sending so much love your way. You, your beautiful kids, your mom and Phil's mom are in my heart all the time.
All love,
Sonja
Phil... you're a star. Keep shining, brother.
Phil & Ms. Cid,
We will continue to pray for your strength and full recovery. We love you. Trust,Justice,Anissia & Family
whats hanley fam this is your friendly neighborhood spiderman. just sending out some love and some positive energy. my man phil is a fighter and a suvivor.and he is going to crush.i mean we are going to crush this situation and move ahead. phil you are aveson and i could,t imagine the school without you. stay strong.keep fighting we love you.
Dear ones-
I know that Phil's body knows how to heal itself and I know he is healing perfectly.
Emma asks about Phil evryday and we pray together sending love, light and healing energy.We send love and light to the family, the doctors and every single person who is assisting Phil and his family during this part of his journey.We are here for all of you.
Peace, love and grace,
Gwen
Keep Fighting Phil...You are a ROCK! I know you will be back with us soon! All my thoughts and prayers are with you, Cid and the kids daily!
We are thinking of you daily Phil and sending tons of healing thoughts...Murphy-Boyds
Phil- You rock... your brain is fighting so hard! We are fighting right along side of you. Can't wait to see you. Much Love~ Thea
what a fighter you are, phil! tom & i keep you, cid, and the kids in our daily prayers....see what love & WILL can do?!
Phil,
Your warm smile and welcoming presence are truly a treasure at Aveson. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Callie
Hi Phil, Cid, Leah and Jordan--
Just wanting to say hello and let you know that we are so excited about your progress. You are all working so very hard; and you're accomplishing a tremendous amount.
Love to all of you and to your extended families, too.
Sonja
Phil,
You are in our thoughts daily as we are simply willing you to wake up and rejoin us. My love and support go out to your amazing family...Your smile and spirit stays with us...Please know how much we care and will always be here for you!! Love, The Porters
Hi Phil:
I ran into Cid and Leah and Jordan in the parking lot at Target the other day--and then Cid and Jordan were at the kindergarten playdate yesterday. They are all doing okay--bearing up, but they miss you terribly. Please hurry home. We all love you so much--
Sonja
Dear Phil,
In the immortal words of Klaus Meine, "There's no one like you!"
Heal and rest - you are the BEST.
Love and light,
Bridget
Continuing to hold you all in love, light and grace.
Much love, Gwen and Emma Rose
Phil, Cid and family,
We want you to know we are keeping you in our thoughts.
Love,
Lorraine, Ric and Kiki Heitzman
Phil and family, you are all in our thoughts daily, rest and recuperate, and know that so many people are supporting your healthy recovery.
Miss you!
I'm in Santa Fe now and just saw the most beautiful rainbow after a thunder shower. It made me think of how amazing this world is and how we really need Phil in it! Get well and be back with us soon.
Hi, Phil
Miss you a lot! It's time for you to wake up and go home to your family. And don't think you're getting out of making us all a steak that isn't burned.
See you soon.
Love,
amy
I pray for Phil and the family everyday.I look forward to sharing memories with Phil about oklahoma.We had such a fantastic time.
-Jeff Duncan
Phil- I saw Jordan and Leah today... they are getting so tall! You won't believe it when you see them! All my love and positive thoughts.
Always,
Thea
I hope you heal, Phil. I offer my condolences to your family and you, and I hope you get better soon.
Hi Phil;
Well, school starts this week and--well. We all just miss you like crazy. I'll be looking forward to coming to read to you. I'll be in Cid's class quite a bit and will be happy to see her.
There is an art "happening" in Old Town on the plaza, and they have 20 crepe myrtle trees in tubs. They have white tags sitting out with pencils, and anyone can put wishes on a tag and attach it to a tree. There were thousands of wishes, millions. "I wish my dog could live forever" "I wish men weren't such @#$holes" "I wish for my daughter's happiness" "I wish I could stay sober," "I wish our president wasn't an idiot." Beautiful wishes, trite and sad and silly and deep. I wrote: 'I wish for Phil's full recovery."
All love,
Sonja
Phil,
Your presence so strong on the Aveson campus. We can't wait to see your smiling face greet us! Thinking of you and praying for you to wake up!
Hi Phil,
Today was the first day of school. It went really well. But I missed you there. Your presence is everywhere. But I missed your physical presence. Girls in Jordan's class were fighting over who gets to marry him. HAHA. Does it really start that young? I can't even remember Kindergarten.
Day one is complete and yet not at all without you there. You are very much missed on campus, but the kids are committed to taking care of our school while you're away.
I saw the art experience in Old Town as well and just like Sonja I had to make a wish for your full recovery. You have at least two tags on those trees and I have a suspicion that there are many more wishes for you out there in the world.
Lisa
Hey Phil,
This is anton the first day of school was not the same without you there i realy hope that you get better :)
Hi, Phil. Remember how we talked about how you would yank the pipes out of the old (white) water fountains and I would build planter boxes to go on top of them? And then I was going to get the little kiddles to help me plant some stuff spilling over, to soften those blank walls? Well, I've been planning it all summer, but I can't do it without you. (And you had a plan for those old pipes, right?)
We're pulling for you, Phil, and looking forward to more projects together.
Rooh Steif (and the Zuker family)
ps - we miss you at morning 3-5 drop-off!
Hi Phil:
I've been working a bit in Cid's classroom, and I just wanted to let you know that she's doing an amazing job. She misses you terribly, but she's not letting that affect her with the kids at school--she's patient as a tree, affectionate, funny--just great. I don't know how she does it--her love for you is so strong it's visible, and she'll be so grateful to have you back. But she's heroic while she's waiting. You'd be very proud of her.
We sure miss you. We hear you're doing so much healing--keep it up. We're all fighting with you--
Sonja
Fight on, Mr. Phil.
Mr. Tom's Advisory sends you positive vibes and love each and every day.
I went to visit Phil yesterday and I have to say, he is a truly amazing person. His strength,determination and courage amaze me everyday. Phil.... We think about you recovering everyday. The journey will be a long and trying road but if anyone can conquer it, you can. Keep on fighting Phil. Our thoughts are always with you and your family.
Hi, Phil
Everyone is so excited about your progress!! We can't wait to hear what you have to say about all of this.
Miss you a lot.
Love,
Amy
You have fought so hard Phil.......I am truly amazed by your will. We have so much faith in you and your complete recovery. Keep fighting and making progress every day....
Hi Phil:
I was in Cid's class yesterday and she was so happy because she'd asked you to move your feet and you'd complied--she was there with your mom and Amy and they really felt like you could hear what they were asking you to do.
Then I had a dream last night that I came to visit you and brought along some stuff to smell--a fresh donut, pizza, Cid's soap, some coffee. I asked you if you wanted some coffee and you said yes, then sat up and got out of bed. I was shocked and turned quickly, which caused you to stumble and we both ended up on the floor and laughed til we cried. Then Cid came in and Kate, and what a reunion you had.
And now the news that you're making words and noise. Well, make a ton of noise! Sometimes dreams are prophetic--I say make as much noise as you possibly can.
See you soon,
Sonja
Dear Phil,
Rosie and I enjoyed our visit with you last Friday. You seemed to respond favorably to the aroma of the strawberry oil we brought. When i mentioned Milan, Alessandro and Amelie to you, your eyes widened.... it seemed you tried to say something to us.
You and your loved ones will continue to be in our prayers. We miss you.
German & Rosie Barrero
we are so excited about your progress! we believe in you and your recovery.
it's just not the same around Aveson without you.
Kirk Nancy and Xander
Dear Cid,
I'm so sorry to hear this. I was disconnected to Aveson news since the new school year 'cause my email address was wrong in the directory. I think i was the last person to know this bad news. I knew that Phil fell of the ladder from Banso but I did not know that serious and also i did not know he was your husband until I talked to Theresa ( Christina 's mom) last week. Banso loves Phil so much. She writes her prayers on every piece of papers she has.
All our best wishes to your family and hope to see his smile at Aveson soon.
Talk to you later,
-Linh
What amazing news! I am a huge believer in the power of prayer coupled with one person's will to survive....and, Phil - you are proving that to be a fact! Keep on doing your job getting well & we will keep doing our job praying for you & your family!
Phil-
I LOVED talking with you today. We are all so excited about your progress!! You made it known that you definitely prefer Van Halen to Decemberists that is for SURE! Miss you and can't wait to hear you tell your stories.
Love,
Amy
I miss you, buddy. It's been a while, what with your move and all.
Keep fighting. We believe in you. We think about you everyday. My little blue bracelet has never come off, not once.
Like I told you the last time I saw you, and I know you heard me. ---
Phil, we are awaiting an update on your progress since moving to the new facility. You are in our nightly prayers & we have hope & faith in you!!! keep fighting the good fight...xo
My dearest Phil & Cyd;
How truly shocked I was to hear about what has happened to our fearless warrior. ALL our prayers and positive thoughts are with you both. I know that even though I am in MD and can't get to you right now, it doesn't mean that I don't ache inside. The Ralli family is praying for you both.
Hi Phil..... It's been a while.... sorry we haven't been in touch lately. Milan and I were thinking of you today and we went online and started to read Henri Nouwen's book, "Adam". (An old neighbor had lent the book to me some years back and we finally ordered our own copy) :) I know those around you would appreciate the message in this book.
Thank you for always making Alessandro feel like he belonged at Aveson. You were one of the angels that embraced him every time he came across your path and we have fond memories of your peaceful spirit protecting him.
God has blessed you and those around you in ways many would not understand. We have been blessed to have crossed your path. Hope to see you soon.
German, Rosie, Milan, Alessandro & Amelie
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